I cant belive it.. some people have serious attitude problem.. just because they are unhappy with a certain person.. they shift their excuses to something else.. i find that an extremely childish and immature behavier.. If the person is unhappy with something, he can simply approach the person up.. instead of shifting his excuses..
Some people don't know how to accept things in another manner.. for eg, thinking out of the box.. They only understands things in a certain prospective and they don't think out of the box.. is that their capabilities? Or are they plainly stupid? I seriously don't know..
Whats up with people nowadays.. Being so crude.. and unable to accept things in another way.. and force their way through something.. And even if the person has apologise, these dudes just don't accept it.. Thats being extremely pesimistic..Don't they ever do some soul searching? Don't they EVER accept the fact that no one is at fault and they infact, is being paranoid..
Just like the term meta-cognition .. its the thinking about the thinking.. Please.. Think before you speak.. Make sure you have concret proof before u start claiming something.. And if you do not have concrete proof? Don't even try and bother to try arguing.. because.. most probably, this person would be the one at lost..
I guess there's a big difference between students from JC's and students from ITE.. i have been observing for a long time.. As you know.. its expected that students from ITE are more of the violent side and speak in a extremely crude manner and sprouting vulgarties like its none of their business... While JC students are more polite with their words and are able to accept things in a different prospective..
Personally, i don't think im a nasty person.. neither am i a nice person.. And most of my friends know that im not good with my words.. However, If i am the one at fault, usually, i would be the one that apologises first... Because im able to accept the fact that if im wrong, im wrong..
In conclusion, i dedicated this post for 1 person and if you ever read it, im sorry but i hope that you will be able to accept your flaws and change for the better.. not that im despise you or whatever, but in my opinion, you are the one at fault.. And im sorry because i blew up too.. =)
I personally feel that attitude problem is very common in S'pore shools. Having a bit of anger and somebody will like, react violencely ... Ocassionaly i wonder why? .Maybe cause in s'pore, everyone is so proud, prehaps of our good education and such. That's why maybe everyone think that they MUST get their rights, if not it's counted that they are being ill treated..and that brings us back to the attitude problem..
If more people's attitude to the world is like wat they want the world's attitude to themselves, everyone would be so happy and aint that wat ppl wan most? So, in otherwords.. ppl are mostly selfish, they expect most of others and least of themselves..of course, yours truely is not an exception.. but to cure this attitude problem, i tink the best way is to understand urself, to listen to urself, to be trueful to urself, and to correct urself while listening to other's advice.. if more ppl know themselves and understand that others do not owe them the world and that they are unique, not special.. mayb more ppl can laugh happily and be able to accept critisms freely..XD

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